Monday, July 14, 2008

Technology and Love: Text Message Relationships and Text Sex (Entry 1)

Technology and Love: Text Message Relationships and Text Sex (Entry 1)







Moving further and further away from the typical norm of dating in the fashion of taking either a girl or a guy out on a romantic dinner and than to the movies only to hope that the night ends with an embrace of your lips. We are moving further and further into the world of not just online dating but text message relationships. The interesting thing behind this is that both individuals have each other’s phone number but for some social preference, we choose to text rather than speak. Some studies show that people are afraid of speaking with their voice because that it might propel the relationship to terminate sooner than later. The interesting thing is that moving from sending messages on myspace to text messaging one another, not even ever meeting face to face it is possible to develop a very co dependent like emotional and mental connection. Let’s just say I know first hand and now after 2 years roughly should I take that plunge in meeting with this person or just let it continue for what it has been. What would you do? Relationships glued together by technology when in the area of sex, well this can be very erotic. Yes the physical component is not there in front of you but if you use your mind, you can see and believe everything. Sending text messages back and forth as each other pleasure themselves is becoming so much more common. It is creating a connection that can not go beyond the screen on your phone but this disconnecting attitude in the end makes you use your mind more than if you were laying naked on a bed together. I will go into more complex opinions on this in the next entry but for now I would love to get your feedback on my question.







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