Why Do Girls Push Guys Away?
Here’s a thought for every man that tries to understand, as
he walks down the road of love and friendship with beautiful angels that grace
the tender emotions of his heart.
Some might say, men are bound by all the weight of a women’s words,
chained to all the actions of her doings.
She’s electric like that, she gives a man soul and maybe sometimes she
takes his pride, but she’s got many reasons on why she pushes away.
There are 2 types of scenarios in which a girl pushes a guy
away; first off I am facing you with the circumstance of when a girl is dating
a guy.
In certain situations from what I have come to realize is
that a girl may push away a nice guy, because the girl may not be happy with
herself, having gone through so many bad relationships they become to feel a
certain way. That way is a sense
of skepticism, questioning the man’s motives of why they are being so nice,
usually in this sort of situation the girl tends to be waiting for the bottom
to drop out, more like hoping the bottom drops out. She waits by the nightmare of the guy treating her like
crap, if her patience doesn’t last, she lights and she pushes away.
Of course there will be the girl’s that claim it’s because
they are not ready to settle down yet, but that’s not really the pushing away I
am talking about, that’s more two people aren’t really in the same mode of the
relationship.
Sometimes though, girls push men away because of men rolling
down the mountain like a landslide of overwhelming ness to the point of
suffocation. Guy’s must learn to
realize that sometimes too much is too much, sometimes and some girls like to
get a little of that chase action, for these girls they get a little bored if
the man always comes to them.
These girls need some space, don’t worry she will come to you. If you smoother these types of women,
always telling them how pretty they are, or always trying to hug and kiss them,
she will sabotage the relationship.
She will end up pushing you away, leaving you stranded in the desert
with nothing except blinded heartache full of confusion.
Will a girl push a guy away just to see how serious he
is? Will she push him away just to
see if he will come back? Do some
women view a guy that constantly comes back the guy that really loves them?
Hey Now!!! Of course girls can be very smart and strategic
with their manipulation. In these
circumstances you have to realize the girl is pushing you away, only in desire
of wanting to be and feel closer to you, a sort of instinctual pushing away,
aka “testing”.
The second scenario is if the girl and guy are not dating,
yet.
How many special people change, sometimes guys tend to be
able to pick up on the signals of the hello energy that a girl puts out. An energy, that’s a vibe and connection,
that sparks a sort of magical aura, that type of magic that moves friends into
something more. I’m talking about
those beautiful girls that hide their true feelings from a man, because they
fear sharing their desire for a much closer relationship and for true
love. These women understand their
true feelings, and they want to say the things that they are actually feeling
in their hearts, but they feel an immense amount blinding from the fear that
imprisons their heart and desires.
Like all guys, we’ve had women communicate their feelings in
all sorts of fashions from joy to anger to frustration to disappointment to
feeling safe to passion, and in the larger context when two people have all
these emotions together it creates a road that can lead to that magical
aura. Feelings develop physically,
emotionally, and socially but as things get closer these girls push guys away
because of the fear, the closeness scares them. Fear can cause these girls to push guys away, keeping a
great connection powerless.
If this is the case, guy’s should try not to develop any
negative emotions that would commonly arise in the back their minds, all women
are complicated in their own ways and have their own reasons for doing the
things they do, but women make the world go round and that’s why we love them.
Mike Ahuja
