Thursday, April 21, 2011

WHY DO COUPLES FIGHT?

WHY DO COUPLES FIGHT?
WE TOUCH, LIGHTS GO OUT, WE CHASE SHADOWS
Every time when we touch, when the lights go out, we always end up chasing delirious shadows trying to convince ourselves that this dispute is meaningless. We brush it off to the side always screaming tomorrow can wait, but after approaching and touching one another in the same ways, maybe tomorrow can’t wait, maybe it just can’t wait. Couple’s routinely get trapped in a distorted reality blaming passionate disputes on silly and easy to justify reasons such as money and finances for example; when in fact money deep down is really never the root that feeds these arguments, it’s much simpler in truth.
So, why do couples fight?
We tend to slow down the closer we get to sunrise, seeing what tomorrow can bring, but it’s always the same shit, haven’t you noticed? Well if you haven’t maybe you should open up the confines of your gaze and gaze right into the mirror of your partner, but keep the lights on this time and try not to act like a bloodthirsty vampire trying to extract unimportant words that will not lead to resolution.
Waking into the sources and foundations of why couples struggle with fights and arguments that often times can lead to collapse of the combined souls, so many people have gone through a relationship breakup or a divorce and it can be one of the most devastating events in one’s life as you attempt to heal your out of order heart and spirit, but maybe this doesn’t have to occur, as with cancer there are prevention methods, same goes with relationships.
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